The True Story of The Burning Bride of Alexandria

This Alexandria legend is one of the most popular ghost stories in the town. Alexandria is noted for its plethora of ghost stories, many of which feature women at the forefront. As with many legends and lore, they often deviate from the truth for the sake of a good scare. But sometimes, at least in the case of Laura M. Schafer, famously known as the Burning Bride of Alexandria, truth is more horrifying than fiction.

One Fateful Night

In June of 1868, Laura M. Schafer lived with her family at their home on N. Fairfax Street. On the bottom floor was a confectionary ran by her father Mr. Christian Schafer, who was a prominent citizen of Alexandria. The second and third floor would be the residence in which the Schafer family lived. 

On one fateful night in late June, Laura was getting dressed for bed on the third floor of the house, with her grandmother, named Mrs. Ballenger, in the room with her. According to an article from the The Alexandria Gazette, Laura went to father’s room to wish him goodnight. She wasn’t even halfway into her father’s room when she heard the glass of her kerosene lamp crack. The burning oil from the lamp landed on her dress. Laura frantically threw the lamp into the hearth in her father’s room and ran out of the room, screaming and crying for help.

Unfortunately, the wind from Laura’s running only added fuel to the fire. By the time she reached the bottom, the flames had reached above her head. Her brother-in-law, William Phillips, had been at the stairs in front of the house when he heard her cries. Her mother also heard the cries and tried to help her. Phillips removed his coat and wrapped Laura, which extinguished the flames. Laura’ grandmother had used a blanket to extinguish the flames that had been going in Laura’s father’s room.

Clip from The Alexandria Gazette recounting the tragedy from June 29, 1848.

Sadly, Laura had severe burns, parts of which The Alexandria Gazette described as “to a crisp.” By 11:00am the next morning, Laura passed away, with her companion, Mr. Charles Tenneson by her side.

It was rumored that Laura and Charles were engaged to be married, but not confirmed. They were friends for years and Laura wouldn’t take another man as a friend.

A Broken Heart

Charles took Laura’s death rather hard. The day of her death, he took to drinking. His friend, a Mr. Henry Green, walked with Charles to the local wholesale liquor store and bar. Mr. Green didn’t have the key to the back door, so Charles waited for him in Ramsey Alley, which was right next to the Schafer House. Mr. Green let Charles in through the back door and he offered to buy Charles any drink on his bill. As the two men said cheers, Charles said, “Here’s to you and I – God save us.” As Mr. Green took an empty glass back to the bar, he heard a gunshot and Charles on the floor. The heartbroken Charles took a pistol to his head. Even though he was unconscious, he passed away around 3:20pm.

While not specific, local churches took care of the final arrangements for the young couple. Laura is buried at Washington Street United Methodist Church in Alexandria, and it’s believed that Charles is buried not too far from her.

The staircase of the Schafer House. Credit: Alex Matsuo

The Schafer House went through a few different identities after it was a confectionery with the Schafer family. It has been a real estate agency, a Christmas trinket store called the Christmas Attic, once again a candy store, and currently, at the time this piece was written, it is a coffee house and gelato shop with an AirBnB on the third floor. According to Michael Lee Pope, author of Ghosts of Alexandria, tenants who have owned and worked in the building know something is different and not quite right.

Echoes of a Traumatic Past

One local ghost tour guide shared that she felt lightheaded and dizzy when she visited the house while it was the Christmas Attic. Employees of the Christmas Attic also shared that Christmas trees and other holiday props would be knocked down the next morning after the store closed.

When a woman named Candida Kreb opened Candi’s Candies in the house in 2007, she never knew the story of Laura Schafer until a ghost tour was outside one evening. Kreb told the group that she doesn’t believe in ghosts before closing the window. But then she had an experience that changed her mind.

Front of the Schafer House. Credit: Alex Matsuo

Kreb was working alone one evening while closing the shop when she smelled something burning. She went to the hallway to search for the source but didn’t find anything. Using her nose, Kreb followed the smell upstairs, but once again, found nothing. Kreb decided it must have been a neighbor smoking. So, she closed the shop for the night. The next day, the smell came back. As Kreb went to investigate once more, she went to the same staircase that Laura ran down for her life and it was then Kreb remembered the story of Laura.

This wouldn’t be Kreb’s only experience. One night, she was cleaning the store when she had this overwhelming feeling of being watched. She heard a voice in her head say, “Enough. Leave.” Kreb didn’t stick around and quickly took the cash register and left. She believes that this was Laura telling her that she overstayed her welcome and it was time to go. Kreb also reported feeling an overwhelming presence in the basement as well and described it as a male.

Kreb kept a receipt signed by Laura M. Schaefer behind the cash register. It is unknown if the coffee and gelato shop still have it, but it’s a nice reminder that there are real people behind these stories.

Legends & Lore Emerge

Variations of Laura Schafer’s tragic end and the paranormal experiences following have become widely popular. The story I heard on the ghost tour described Laura as a bride and the wedding was taking place at the confectionery and the town square right next door. Laura the Bride had gone upstairs when the kerosene lamp broke and the burning oil spilled onto her wedding dress. Like the real account, Laura the Bride ran downstairs while engulfed in flames. But this time, she ran outside to the wedding reception and was ablaze in front of her wedding guests. Other variations will state that Laura was just trying on her wedding dress for the ceremony that would take place a week later. Hence, this is why Laura became known as the Burning Bride of Alexandria. 

The Schafer House as a coffee and gelato shop. Credit: Alex Matsuo

Similar outcome as well as the death of Charles Tenneson, with stories sometimes pinning his death in Ramsey Alley instead of the bar. Other bastardizations of the story even have Charles as a stalker throwing stones at Laura’s window and setting her on fire himself.

Given the horrific tragedy of Laura’s death, no embellishment or exaggerations are needed. Laura certainly had her own identity and agency, which seems to be reduced to a burning bride. But, there are people who are dedicated to sharing the true story of Laura’s passing, thus giving her her identity back.

Haunted DC: The Haunting of the Smithsonian Castle

Washington DC is one of those haunted places that many people sleep on. Why is this? Well, Washington DC is dominated by its reputation as the capital of the United States. When people visit DC, it’s usually not to see the ghosts. Instead, it’s to see the White House, the Capitol Building, a Smithsonian Museum, the Library of Congress, and more. Ironically, the places I listed are also haunted.

After I relocated to Arlington, Virginia, just across the Potomac River and minutes from DC on a good traffic day, I decided to learn more about the area by researching the local haunts. Imagine my surprise when I counted over 60 haunted locations just within 10 miles from where I live!

First on the list is the Smithsonian Institution, also known as the Smithsonian Castle. It served as the institution’s first headquarters and is still a prominent landmark today.

A Generous Gift

The Smithsonian was established through the will of James Smithson, a British scientist and mineralogist, who left his fortune to the United States to create an institution dedicated to the “increase and diffusion of knowledge.” How exactly the United States obtained the fortune is rather complex. Smithson was originally born in scandal and when he passed, he left his fortune to his nephew. If said nephew died without an heir, then the fortune would be passed on to the United States.

Sure enough, when Smithson’s nephew passed unmarried and childless, the United States got quite the gift on their hands. This unusual bequest, which is believed to be a result of Smithson’s fascination with American democracy and scientific advancements, laid the foundation for what would become the Smithsonian. 

The Smithsonian Institution was established  in 1846 by the United States Congress after years of legal and bureaucratic processes in order to accept Smithson’s generous gift. The design of the castle was determined by a competition and architect James Renwick, Jr. won by a unanimous vote. Renwick’s design of the Castle included a Gothic revival style with Romanesque motifs, a style often chosen for universities in England. 

Construction Begins

Construction officially started in 1847. That same year, the Smithsonian’s Board of Regents made a decision to save money by replacing the brick vaults and iron beams with wooden columns and rafters instead. This decision would end up being disastrous. The East Wing was completed in 1849 and occupied by Joseph Henry, the institution’s first secretary. Joseph Henry was a prominent physicist and played a crucial role in shaping its early direction.

The exterior was completed in 1852 and Renwick excused himself from the rest of the construction since his part of the work was done. The rest of the work was completed in 1855 by the general contractor, Gilbert Cameron..

In 1865, a roof fire heavily damaged the upper floor of the Smithsonian and sadly, destroyed the original letters of Smithson as well as Joseph Henry’s papers.

The Smithson Crypt

Smithson Crypt. Credit: The Smithsonian Institution

James Smithson originally passed away in Genoa, Italy in 1829 and was buried there. Then, his remains were brought to the United States in 1904 by a team headed by Alexander Graham Bell before being reinterred in 1905 at the Castle. His tomb is located in a small chamber in the lower level and includes the original Italian grave marker. An inscription on the tomb reads:

“James Smithson, Benefactor of the Smithsonian Institution, Died June 27, 1829”

In 1974, the Castle was going through renovations and the gate to the crypt was removed, giving visitors the opportunity to see Smithson’s tomb up close and personal. Also during the renovation around 1973, Smithson’s coffin was opened and his remains went through a scientific study by curator Dr. Lawrence Angel. It was determined that Smithson was about 5 feet 6 inches tall, had an extra vertebrae, smoked a pipe, and died of natural causes. 48 hours later, Smithson’s remains were resealed and the coffin was returned.

Visitors to the Smithsonian Castle can still see his tomb today, paying tribute to the man whose generosity and vision led to the creation of one of the most renowned institutions for education, research, and culture in the United States. 

Reported Hauntings

Joseph Henry

Joseph Henry Portrait. Credit: The Smithsonian Institution. “Record Unit 95, Box 11, Folder 15”

One of the earliest ghost stories surrounding the Smithsonian Castle is that of Joseph Henry, who was the first Secretary of the Smithsonian Institution. He died in his living quarters in the Castle in 1878. He was a physicist who specialized in the study of electromagnetism, so he was very much a skeptic of any sort of afterlife. Ironically, Henry didn’t believe in ghosts, so the fact he’s such a prominent ghostly presence is quite ironic. Today, a statue of Henry’s likeness stands in front of the Castle. It is reported that his shadow will escape from the statue and his spirit wanders the halls at night. In 1900, a nightwatchman reportedly ran into Henry, who was dressed for the work day and getting ready to go about his duties at the Castle.

Joseph Henry statue at entrance of Smithsonian Institution Building. Credit: The Smithsonian Institution

James Smithson

James Smithson (1860)

Even though James Smithson died long before the Castle or any of the museums were ever built, let alone thought of, it seems that he is admiring the result of his generous gift. His apparition started to get spotted after his remains were brought to the Castle and interred at the crypt. The apparition was noticed enough to the point where his tomb was actually reopened to check the status of his remains, which, according to legend, is why Smithson’s coffin was reopened in 1973. Upon opening the casket, it was noted that Smithson’s remains were very disorganized and disheveled. Once his remains were placed respectfully back into the casket, sightings ceased.

Dr. Emil Bessels

Dr. Emil Bessels (1880)

Dr. Emil Bessels was a German Jewish naturalist as well as an Arctic explorer. He was also a zoologist and physician who had a thirst for knowledge. This is why it shouldn’t be surprising that Dr. Bessels is frequently spotted gliding down the hallways of the Castle and looking through the Institution’s curios.

Spencer Fullerton Baird

Spencer Fullerton Baird, photographed by Wil

Spencer Fullerton Baird was the first curator of the Smithsonian Castle as well as the second secretary. His apparition has often been seen around the Castle. Upon looking at his photo, his appearance is rather striking and unforgettable, so it’s unlikely that he would have been mistaken for someone else. His long career at the Smithsonian was so notable that it doesn’t seem he wants to leave, even in the afterlife. But if you try to talk to Baird’s spirit, he disappears.

Fielding B. Meek

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Fielding Bradford Meek lived at the Smithsonian Castle with his cat and passed away in his room on December 21st, 1876 after dealing with a debilitating bout of tuberculosis. His original room was under one of the staircases before he was relocated to one of the towers after the 1865 fire. He was known to be an odd character and mainly kept to himself. Today, he is one of the most active spirits. If you encounter Meek, he doesn’t mean to do you harm. He’s just looking for someone to talk archaeology and mollusks to.

Meek wrote, “This is all the family I have” under this drawing of his cat.

Other Ghost Stories

Other spirited sightings have plagued the Castle. One of which includes the mournful cry of a bird that has been long dead and preserved in the Smithsonian. A night watchman named Donald reported seeing the apparition of a Japanese swordsman who had a knife in his hand.

The Smithsonian Today

Today, the Smithsonian comprises 19 museums, 21 libraries, nine research centers, and a zoo, collectively attracting millions of visitors annually. Its mission to “increase and diffuse knowledge” continues to guide its diverse activities, making it a revered institution in the United States and a symbol of the nation’s commitment to education, science, and culture. The Smithsonian team is very open and transparent about the hauntings around their different locations, even hosting an episode of their podcast on the topic. But in other articles, people have determined that the Smithsonian Castle is not haunted and it’s simply urban legend.

The Smithsonian Castle is currently closed as of February 1st, 2023 for a 5-year renovation project. But you can still look and admire the building from the outside!

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Exposing the Truth About Ghost Stories

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In September 2021, I made some waves on social media with the following statement:

After I published a TikTok video about trauma and the paranormal, one of my followers suggested that I read Ghostland by Colin Dickey. I have to say, this is probably one of the most important books for any paranormal researcher and investigator to read.

I’ll do a full book review on my team’s website, Association of Paranormal Study once I complete it. I wish I hadn’t sat on this book for so long. It came out in 2016, and yet, I never heard of it until a beloved follower suggested it to me. 

Anatomy of a Ghost Story

Ghost stories have always been a point of interest for us as humans, even more so if they’re based on truth. There’s something about the creepiness of the unknown that not only gives us a thrill, but offers some sort of security blanket that it will never happen to us…or could it? This feeling is very similar to being a true crime fan. Like…it couldn’t happen, but it could. I think that’s the heart of the paranormal community. These events seem so unreal, but there’s an element of truth to them. 

The anatomy of ghost stories, local legends, and lore, has always fascinated me. Ghost stories can tell so much about our history and legacy as a society. The fact that marginalized groups are so often left out of this narrative is very telling. These groups are often treated as the other when they are included in narratives. This is especially true for TV shows. The trope of “ancient Indian burial grounds” comes to mind. Dickey also goes into this in Ghostland as well as in an interview for the podcast, The Q Files. It’s worth a listen. Another is, “They were practicing witchcraft.” And finally, “These two men who lived together for decades were best friends and roommates.” Okay, sure.

The first two points are often used to explain an angry or aggressive haunting. Instead of pointing the responsibility in how these marginalized groups were treated by society, blame is placed on the aggressor. I’ve often noticed that these groups are often lumped into the “evil” haunting or even a demonic haunting.

Ghost Story as Escapism

According to the BBC article, The secret meaning of ghost stories, “Women were contributing around 70% of ghost stories to magazines in the 19th Century.” Ghost stories were a way for women to break against society as well as challenge conventional gender norms of the time. Why mention this? I think it could give us a clue on how ghost stories have evolved over time. But how consciously aware of it are we?

Our bias can also provide us a way of escape, even if we’re not consciously aware of it. As we continue this journey, keep bias in mind. Consider how it has shaped paranormal experiences and ghost stories of real places.

Paul Patterson, Ph.D noted that the earliest ghost stories date back to Ancient Rome. If you’ve followed me for a while, you’ve heard me talk about the story of Athenodorus. I’ve mentioned the story a few times in my books as well. Patterson mentions that in these early years, the ghosts were just…there. They aren’t harming anyone and really, they’re only tied to unfinished business, like a botched burial. Then, Patterson continues to say that as history entered into the late 18th century, ghost stories became quite dark and aggressive, heralding the genre of gothic fiction.

The Made Up Ghost Story

It’s hard to face the fact that most ghost stories are made up. Throughout history, humans have been conditioned to try to fill in the blanks when it comes to things we don’t understand. As we continue to gain more understanding in various fields of sciences, those mysterious ghost stories we grew up with are now becoming more explainable. Those footsteps you hear from behind you? Floorboards readjusting. The Salem Witch Trials? No witches involved, except for Tituba, who studied root work. Just a corrupt Puritan community hungry for land and power and potential ergot poisoning as the catalyst.

It is from the lack of understanding is where we see who is (or was) the dominant social group of the time. In Ghostland, Colin Dickey recounts the neighborhood of Shockcoe Bottom in Richmond, Virginia. The particular neighborhood has lots of bars and restaurants, filled with ghosts that are predominantly white. However, just down the block, slaves were bought at sold as well as imprisoned. With so much trauma that occurred in one area, why are the ghosts reported as predominantly white?

Dickey made a brilliant point about the neighborhood’s white tourism and the burying of such a horrific chapter of its history. He says “For those who would rather not revisit those days, the city’s ghost lore makes it easy, turning our attention to murdered gunsmiths and fabled prostitutes” (Dickey 117).

Historical Context

In 2014, I wrote a book called, The Haunted Actor: An Exploration of Supernatural Belief Through Theatre. The book was primarily based on my research into paranormal belief as shown through plays and musicals throughout history. From my analysis, I was able to get context on the belief of spirits for a play’s respective time period. For example, exploring the idea of a ghost’s identity was analyzed with Hamlet. The perspective of witchcraft and sorcery during the Elizabethan era can be found in plays like Macbeth, The Tempest, Doctor Faustus, etc.

Through historical texts like plays, sonnets, poems, etc. we truly get a glimpse into paranormal beliefs of that era. However, we’re seeing it through the eyes of the dominant group of that time period. Silence was meted out to those that didn’t have fame or couldn’t read or write.

In my blog, A Different Kind of Therapy: Processing Trauma with Ghost Hunting, I talk about how modern day paranormal investigators and researchers use the paranormal as a way to process trauma. That could be personal trauma, or facing the trauma that is history, especially in the United States.

An Ignored Group

Another point that Dickey makes is the fact that dominant ethnic group often controls the narrative, even when they don’t mean to. A slave, for instance, was not allowed to read or write. This meant that they weren’t able to record their stories; whether that be personal experiences, family history, cultural ghost stories, etc. By the time former slaves were dying off in the 1930’s, the federal government put forth the WPA project recording slave narratives. Thanks to oral tradition, they were able to save many of these stories, but not all of them. There are millions of stories that we will never learn about because the people who knew them are no longer with us.

Also, the dominant group has better control over the narrative of marginalized people. This is especially true in places like Myrtles Plantation and Monticello. Dickey, for instance, tells about sightings of Jefferson’s ghost and how he is regarded as benevolent. Given the dynamic of Jefferson’s problematic personal life (specifically Sally Hemmings) and the fact he enslaved over 600 people in his life, how is it that there isn’t much discussion when it comes to hauntings by slaves?

Another potent example is the La Llorona, also known as the weeping woman. It is often mentioned to me by friends and followers of Latin American descent how the legend is whitewashed, especially in Hollywood. Now, it seems the white woman in Victorian dress dominates the narrative instead of its originator.

The Role of Bias

I realize hardcore believers in the paranormal may say it’s because they moved on. But how do we actually know this? While I’m a skeptical believer in ghosts and paranormal, I also know that we can’t actually prove any of this. Also, we don’t ever really know who or what we’re talking to. So, how can one confidently say that they’re communicating with the spirit of Thomas Jefferson? Why does one assume that if they see a shadow in the wine cellar, it’s that of a murdered white gunsmith? These questions especially puzzle me when the experiences don’t line up with the history.

The impact of the area’s turbulent past on residual hauntings may clarify things a bit if we take that into account. But then again, that also exposes the glaring inaccuracies of record keeping and reports of paranormal experiences. I know that many of these ghost stories were made up for entertainment purposes, and to make a location seem more exciting.

Bias in True Encounters

Several of the stories are also true, so it’s important to recognize that. I find it fascinating to see how they are interpreted by people of different genders, races, religions, and sexual identities. Depending on who you talk to, reactions and interpretations are vastly different.

Since this is the case, will we ever be able to truly identify spirits? Are ghost stories simply a way to process trauma and make difficult topics easier to digest?

I’ll be honest, I truly noticed the role of bias coming through when I work with mediums. If I know them well, it’s even easier for me to spot it. Is this a bad thing? I’m not sure. What I do know is that psychic mediums, empaths, and intuitives can change the dynamic of an investigation from positive to “demons are coming” in a matter of minutes. Being aware of not only our own bias, but the bias of others can help maintain some accountability.

Moving Forward as Paranormal Investigators

I believe, as paranormal investigators and researchers become more aware of their bias, it will help maintain an open mind. Honestly, we will never find tangible proof for spirits. At this stage of my life, I’ve accepted that the paranormal is a personal journey for everyone, much like religion. That personal journey is based on our bias. These biases come from our upbringing, trauma, family dynamic, the list goes on.

I’ve noticed that the more effective and knowledgeable paranormal investigators, psychic mediums, witches, etc. are ones who are self-aware of these biases. Instead of jumping to conclusions, they look at all possibilities and don’t immediately assume that they know the spirit they are talking to. In full transparency, this is something I’m working on for myself.

What do you think?