8 Things Paranormal Investigators Are Tired of Hearing

Interpersonal communication is so important in the paranormal field. At some point, you have to interact with someone in the paranormal, especially on social media. As I continue to get requests to work with certain people, I’ve heard it all. I’ll be honest and say that this list mainly consists of the things that *I* am sick of hearing.

1. “A team like nothing else…”

Newsflash, if you have to promote that your team is unique or different “like no other team out there”, chances are, you’re just like everyone else. Unless you’re doing something experimental like using Jell-O and zombie squirrels as a trigger object or something. Or, you managed to recruit aliens from several different galaxies and you’re investigating other worlds. It’s okay that we’re all pretty similar. It’s fine.

2. “You’re closed-minded…”

Paranormal investigators mainly run into this when they’re debunking someone’s evidence. I find this statement so ironic because the person who usually says it is more closed-minded than the investigator. If you’re asking people for their opinions and thoughts, it’s a bit rude to clap back with statements like this. Most paranormal investigators won’t tell you what you want to hear, especially when it involves an orb.

3. “No one is an expert…”

This one…is weird. Of course, when it comes to solving the mysteries of the other side, yeah no one is an expert. But, there are experts in the field in different specialties like psychology, architecture, photography, videography, socialogy, and certain areas of history. But yet, I’ve watched people ignore some really sound advice and input because “no one is an expert.” Yeah, maybe we can’t say what a spirit is, but we can at least listen to the folks in other areas who know more than us. Especially if you’re doing residential cases and working with the general public.

4. “Ghosts don’t do that…”

So, if “no one is an expert”, then why do the same people then tell us what ghosts and spirits can or don’t do? It’s like the whole argument that spirits disappear after 200 years. I’ve had people argue with me until they’re blue in the face saying this is a thing. Based on what? There are many problems with statements like these because, even though they’re not proven, they’re being used as facts. But I thought there were no experts?

5. “It’s a demon…”

If you ever want to get a paranormal invesigator to roll their eyes harder than bread dough, say this. This is problematic for so many reasons. For one, how do you know it’s a demon? Especially if you’re just watching a video or looking at a photo. Just because something may freak you out or give you bad vibes, it doesn’t mean it’s automatically a demon. A lot of things can give us negative vibes and it’s because of our flawed personal interpretation. Yes, I said it. Sometimes we misinterpret things and go flying off the handles. It happens. But awareness of said behavior helps prevent it in the future.

6. “Well, I’ve been on TV…”

So have many many many other people. If you’re a regular star on TV, okay, yeah, I’ll give you kudos. I’m impressed by how many people get catapulted to “celebrity status” in the paranormal field because they were on a mainstream show for 30 seconds. But then again, I see this happening beyond the paranormal field. If you were an extra on The Walking Dead, you can walk into almost any fan convention and have a line to your fan table out the door.

7. “Well, I know _________”

The paranormal community is a small world. It’s likely you’ve interacted with someone who’s been on TV at least once. That’s cool and such, but it’s not a replacement for education or credibility. I know some folks who will name drop like they’re throwing rocks. I’m usually okay with that until they use it as some sort of clout or trying to assert some sort of authority. I’ve already gotten that a few times from folks who want to be a guest on my podcast.

8. “We’re a professional team…”

Everyone should act professionally in this field. Period. Yet, the paranormal field is one of the only communities I’ve encountered that throws this word around. Again, like point number seven, it’s used as clout. It even goes back to point number one like it should be something unique. It’s not. And thank goodness it’s not. There are tons of investigators out there who act professionally. Using this term has the potential to be so problematic and it causes unnecessary discord when it’s being used to seem like they’re “better” than other teams. Another bit of irony: The folks who keep bragging that they’re professional are usually not. It reminds me of that quote that says, “A lion doesn’t have to say it’s a lion.”

Are there teams out there who are unprofessional? Definitely. But it’s best to not give them your attention. They eventually fade away while tripping all over themselves on the way out.

What are you sick of hearing as a paranormal investigator?

5 Most Useful Paranormal Investigation Skills To Learn in 5 Days

As paranormal investigators, we should be in the constant pursuit of knowledge. Not just in our ghost research skills, but also in real-life areas that can enhance our critical thinking skills. Because learning new things can be overwhelming at times, I picked a few things that can be learned in five days.

Keep in mind, you’re not going to become an expert in five days. I recommend dedicating five days for each category for a basic understanding. Who knows, you might find out you really like one of these categories and dedicate yourself to becoming an expert!

You can’t be an authority on something if you don’t know have a basic understanding of how the equipment works. For example, you can’t claim to be an expert on orbs and spirit video if you don’t understand the basics of a camera and can rule out logical explanations.

Finally, I didn’t include spiritual gifts or mediumship, as I already covered this in my blog, 8 Psychic Tips from Someone Who Isn’t Psychic.

Photography

You don’t have to become a full out photographer to understand how cameras work Cameras can be tricky to learn, especially if you’re a photographer. One of the most critical skills a photographer can learn is the use of light. I firmly believe that every paranormal investigator and ghost hunter should learn basic photography. This is especially true in the age of orbs. I’ve noticed a trend where when an orb believer learns more about photography, they debunk orbs. What’s great is that you can find resources on YouTube and it’s free!

If someone presents me with something strange in a photo, and I know they have a background in photography and how cameras work, then that can be super interesting. I appreciate it when someone has already tried to debunk their own data and send me what is left. It takes away a lot of extra work.

Video Editing

100% paranormal investigators should learn about basic videography. Not only to be able to rule out things like dust, bugs, orbs, etc., but also be able to know when a video is fake. Video editing has come a long way in the past few years, and it can be difficult to see what’s real and what isn’t. Storytelling in paranormal videos is also important to investigate too. The basics of storytelling involve having a beginning, middle, and end. It’s more than just watching a clip of a shadow figure. There’s a story being told to draw the viewer in. Some of the most viral paranormal videos are heavily edited, but they tell a fascinating story, which is why it went viral.

Debunking

Yes, debunking is a skill. It is a skill that takes some time to learn, but the basics are enough to get by in a pinch. Here is how I approach debunking; I look at who the person is that is sharing the data. It’s crucial to consider that person’s motivation because that is how I tailor my response. I also look at the circumstances surrounding the data. What device was it captured on? Do we have more information about the area or the room? Were there witnesses? What is the pattern of the area? Like are there cars that drive by the window to create a glare? Does the person have pets?

This can be a frustrating area too because we simply don’t know all of the information or the circumstances. I think it’s also important to distinguish what it is that you’re debunking and to have empathy as needed. For example, someone could be share videos of pet dander and thinking it’s ghosts. They also report that they’ve seen the spirit of their grandmother. I make sure to say something like, “I’m so sorry you’re dealing with __________, that must be _______ for you. The anomalies you mention here don’t seem to be paranormal because it’s _____________. But don’t let this discourage you or feel invalidated.” Tailor this to your own needs, but you get the idea.

Interviewing

When you’re interviewing clients and witnesses, it’s important to know how to interview. You don’t want to give away information to the interviewee. You also don’t want to accidentally prime them to believe something that might not be true. Here’s a great video on how to interview paranormal clients and witnesses using a detective approach. It is so important that you know how to interview people in a way that makes them feel comfortable, and you can also get the information you need without tainting the client or witness.

Research

Finally, even if you’re not a historian, you should know how to research. Whether it’s historical research or researching paranormal phenomena, having this skill will make you a valuable investigator. Not only that, this is a powerful skill that can translate beyond the paranormal world. Learning how to research topics, investigate sources, and determine whether or not something is legitimate or not. The best area to start learning research skills is historical research, as that will teach you the skills to investigate sources and interpret the data.

What is the most useful paranormal investigation skill someone can learn in a few days? Share in the comments below!

10 Ways to Immediately Improve Your Paranormal Investigation Skills

As paranormal investigators and researchers, we should always be looking to improve ourselves. It’s far too easy to remain stagnant in this field and get set in our ways because we find something that works and is consistent. That’s fantastic when that happens, but sometimes it can stunt our growth. Eventually, stunted growth festers and it becomes a problem. But, fear not!

This is a wonderfully diverse community with so much to offer. Here are ten ways to improve your paranormal investigation skills.

1. Believe in Abundance

There is a lot of competition in the paranormal community, but you don’t have to play that game. There is enough room for everyone in the paranormal. There’s plenty of room for everyone to do something significant in the field and have success. Believing in abundance means that you don’t feel jealous when someone is winning. You believe in collaboration over competition. Also, you don’t waste time comparing yourself to everyone else. Not only does it waste time, but it also shifts your focus and it depletes you of precious energy. Embrace what makes you unique. There is no one else like you. You bring something different to the table because you are different. Embrace that!

2. Never Stop Learning

I firmly believe that paranormal investigators should never stop learning. In the age of online learning, if there is anything you want to know, there’s likely an online class for it. I firmly believe that all paranormal investigators should take a basic photography and videography class so that they can understand how the camera catches light. I also believe in taking classes that can improve your investigation and research skills like genealogy, basic psychology, and more.

If you can’t afford a class or taking classes aren’t your best learning method, then look for other resources like panels, discussion groups, listening to podcasts, library books, watching documentaries, the list goes on. There are a multitude of ways to learn from each other in this field that won’t cost a dime. Take advantage of free resources when you can.

3. Think Critically

Critical thinking is a crucial skill if you want to improve as a paranormal investigator. Rarely should you look at a piece of data, a theory, and immediately think, “Okay, that’s legit.” It means you become an active learner rather than a passive sponge of information. You should look at information and figure out possible explanations, question sources, ask questions and see if the sources you have framed the entire picture. If you want to give this a go, click here for an amazing resource on critical thinking.

4. Be Coachable & Open to Feedback

Technically, paranormal people are already doing this, but they’re not liking the results. Really, anytime someone posts a photo or video of evidence, they are putting it out there for peer review. People can analyze and criticize it. They can also give feedback. If someone is a photographer and they debunk your photo, you should take into consideration what they say. If someone asks about conditions surrounding the evidence (setting, temperature, etc.), be ready to provide that information. Most importantly, if you don’t understand, ask questions. I’ve seen many people who, after not understanding peer review feedback, reject any and all ideas and just conclude, “It’s paranormal.”

5. Learn How the Tech Works

Any tech that you use, you should know how it works. What makes it go off? How was it made? What exactly is your tech detecting? This is beyond cameras. You should know what makes your REM-Pod go off. Definitely try to understand how your audio recorder captures sound. It’s possible to understand tech at a high level without diving too deep into the technical aspect of it.

6. Talk to Skeptics & Believers

As a self-proclaimed skeptical believer, talking to the opposite ends of the spectrum has been monumental to my growth as a paranormal investigator. I find that skeptics keep me on my towns and help me make sure that my evidence collection is clean and ethical. Talking to believers helps me understand why people believe what they believe, and how their experiences shape them. All of this better equips me in the field not only in practice but also helping me in how I communicate my ideas on a public forum.

7. Try New Approaches

There are more than a few ways to investigate the paranormal. Research different methods of ghost hunting, like John Sabol’s Ghost Excavation Method. If you don’t like sitting in the dark asking questions, you don’t have to keep doing that. There are hundreds of ways to investigate the paranormal. I lean more towards John Sabol’s method because it gives me an opportunity to dive deeper into the context of the ghosts, and I get to dress up a bit and really take on a character!

8. Try Something Different

As folks get settled into their role as a paranormal investigator, we tend to gravitate more towards what’s comfortable for us. If you want to improve your paranormal investigation skills, try something you’ve been hesitant to dive into. Perhaps you’re normally setting up tech, try historical research. Or, if you’re doing historical research, try setting up tech, or location scouting. There are so many roles within the paranormal, and becoming a well-rounded investigator will make you much more valuable in the field. Plus, you’ll become more self-sufficient.

9. Study Different Personalities

I’m the last person to put labels on people, because I despise them. This isn’t labeling people. I highly recommend studying the personalities of different people in the paranormal community. What are their likes? Dislikes? What upsets them? What brings them joy? I think this is a critical thing to do in the paranormal community so that we can better understand and interact with each other. In turn, this translates into paranormal investigating. Why? Well, ghosts and spirits are people too, and they may have a similar personality to someone you know in real life.

10. Show Your Data to Experts

While there may be not “experts” in the paranormal, there are experts in photography, sound, and videography. If you know me well, you may already know where I’m going with this. If you’re looking for feedback on your photo of orbs, don’t show it to other paranormal people if they don’t have a background in photography. They know the ins and outs of how that technology works. Show your data to them. I guarantee they will be able to tell you what’s going on in your evidence using logical explanations that are backed up by the science of these devices.

I hope these tips were helpful for you! Please feel free to share your own tips in the comments on how to become a better paranormal investigator.

11 Weird Things I Wish I Knew About Ghost Hunting When I First Started

It’s hard to believe that I came into this field full-on in 2011. Sure, I did some “recreational ghost hunting” starting in high school, but I honestly didn’t know what I was doing. It was a lot of sneaking out at night, going to the nearby cemetery in Old Town San Diego, visiting the Whaley House, trying to talk to ghosts in the park, it was a fun time in my life. I didn’t know much about what it meant to be a ghost hunter, and this was something I had always had an interest in. Who knew that I’d be making this a significant part of my life?

But, there were growing pains. There were a LOT of growing pains. As I entered the paranormal community, there was a lot I had to learn about working with people while maintaining a “good” reputation in the field.

Paranormal Investigations Can Be Boring

This is probably the biggest lesson in becoming a paranormal investigator (or ghost hunter). I would dare say that what you see on TV is completely different from real life. Usually, what we see on TV is the best 30-45 minutes of footage. What most people don’t know is that the talent has been at that location for at least a day, if not more. What is seen on TV is an abridged version of their experience. Also, activity isn’t happening every hour, or even every few hours. You may find yourself sitting in the dark and chatting with your fellow investigators throughout the night. Of course, it’s all worth it when you capture that anamolus data that can’t be explained. And that’s why we all keep coming back.

Make Friends with Skeptics

Seriously. I know it may be scary, but please make friends with a skeptic. Subscribe to Skeptical Inquirer. Read up on James Randi and the work he did. One of my favorite skeptics that I think EVERYONE needs to follow is Kenny Biddle. What is great about him is that he makes himself available on different platforms where you can ask him questions and he will answer in a way that will make you feel empowered and educated. It’s important to be friends and network with skeptics because they will keep you honest and will keep you focused as you navigate the world of paranormal investigating and ghost hunting.

Ghosts and Spirits Are People Too

Ghosts and spirits are people, they just exist in different forms. Therefore, we should still treat them as human beings instead of this “spooky entity.” I’ve noticed a lot of paranormal investigators will have their “ghost hunter voice” when trying to communicate, which is completely different from their normal speaking voice. Time and time again, investigators have noticed that there seems to be an uptick in EVP responses during normal conversation. I truly think that speaking to the entities like normal people can make a difference instead of treating them like this spooky being in the shadows.

Evidence Review Takes Time

This is probably the hardest thing for me to do, especially if I have multiple devices to review. Let’s say you brought 4 recording devices with you, and you’re at a location for about 5 hours. After doing the math, you have about 20 hours of footage to review. Of course, once you get through that first device, you can make notes of significant time stamps and see if they correlate with your other tech. But still, it’s a long time to review data. How to manage this? Depending on the urgency of the case you’re working on, set aside an hour or two each day to review your evidence. A little each day goes a long way!

You Don’t Need Fancy Tech

I’ll say this until the day I join the ghosts; you don’t need fancy tech. Yes, I did write a list of cool tech items you need on your ghost hunts, but they will not make or break your experience. If you’re someone who wants to collect data and review evidence, then you’ll probably need an audio recorder and maybe a camera. But, I’ve worked with folks who don’t bring any tech with them and all they have is a pencil and a notepad. You’ll connect with ghost hunters and paranormal investigators who just want to have the experience. Meaning, they just want to make that connection to the other side, take in their surroundings. So, don’t question your legitimacy as a paranormal investigator if you haven’t dropped hundreds of dollars on tech.

Your “Normal” Life May Be Affected

I managed to keep my paranormal life separate from my “normal” life throughout high school and most of college. But I found that the deeper I dove into the paranormal, the more it started to bleed into my normal life…or as I sometimes call it, my “muggle” life. Once I started writing books, making television appearances, and then a YouTube channel, the secret eventually came out. Now, people at work know I’m a paranormal investigator, and I’m so lucky that they are cool with it. Occasionally, I’ll get asked about my latest experiences, which makes for a good break time story. But, it’s good to keep in mind how public you want to be about this incredible life and how it can affect your relationships and job prospects.

Some People Just Need Validation

This was an incredible lesson to learn as someone who does residential cases. Sometimes, people don’t want us to come and solve their hauntings. Instead, they just want validation that something weird is going on. Now, the client doesn’t always realize this. When this happens, we usually talk with our clients to make sure that the resolution they requested is the one they actually wanted. Our clients sometimes just want to confirm that they aren’t crazy and that there really is something spooky in the house, and that’s okay.

Not Everyone is Open to Being Debunked

This is a hard one sometimes, especially when people post photos on social media and say, “Look at this!” It’s easy to go ahead and debunk the evidence as dust, moisture, etc., but then we may be met with accusations of being unbelievers, close-minded, or one of those “evil” skeptics. I’ve always said that I think anyone serious about being a paranormal investigator should consider learning about the ins and outs of photography, audio, and videography. Yet, not everyone will do that, and sometimes they just don’t want to be debunked.

Be Careful About Who You Work With

When I first came into the paranormal community, I had a lot of people wanting to work together and network. I immediately dove in before I really got to know the person, and it ended up biting me in the butt in the end. I definitely recommend getting to know someone before working with them on any paranormal project. Observe how they talk to other people, especially the folks who are not as popular as them. I’ve seen a lot of my fellow investigators get looped into drama and legal trouble because they were looped in with the wrong people. Just be careful.

Psychics Aren’t Right All the Time

I’ve worked with hundreds of different psychics, and I can tell you that all of their gifts are different in some way. Just like how we all have different preferences, tastes, styles, etc., those with abilities have very diverse gifts. But, that doesn’t mean that they are right 100% of the time. The good psychics to work with are those who are open to being wrong and use those moments as learning opportunities. It’s okay if a psychic is wrong, they may just not be attuned to that location, or they are still learning, or they are trying to force something that isn’t there. For more information on this, check out my tips for psychics.

Paranormal Community is for Everyone

This wasn’t necessarily something I needed to learn, but there are folks in the paranormal community who like to gatekeep. Meaning, if someone has a past that may seem questionable, or they come from a profession that’s a bit taboo, there’s hesitation to welcome them in the community. I will say, that everyone comes from a diverse background, and we all have skeletons in our closets. If someone wants to be a part of the community, and they’re a good person (ie not stealing, lying, etc), they should be welcomed with open arms. There is room at the paranormal table. If you’re feeling shy or intimidated, come sit with me!

10 Ghost Hunting Books You Need to Read

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Reading books as a ghost hunter or paranormal investigator is so important if you want to grow. There are so many resources out there! It’s important to know what other people are talking about and what their experiences are.

The listed books are a mix of “how-to”, personal ghost stories, legends, history, and more. This is just the start of a massive list! If you have a book that you would like to recommend, let me know!

The Brave Mortal’s Guide to Ghost Hunting – Alex Matsuo

Yes, I’m going to plug in my own book. The Brave Mortal’s Guide to Ghost Hunting is all about how to be a paranormal investigator. In this book, I cover a multitude of topics. I cover historical research, evidence review, best practices on the field, as well as paranormal history from a cultural standpoint. If you are new to the world of paranormal investigating, this book is for you!

The Ghost Studies: New Perspectives on the Origins of Paranormal Experiences – Brandon Massullo

This is one of the best books to read as a paranormal investigator. For example, it dives deep into the psyche of paranormal experiences as well as the latest research in hauntings. It was written by Brandon Massullo, who is a clinical therapist and a parapsychologist. He has been cited in numerous journals and is a go-to resource on the topic. It’s safe to say he knows what he is talking about!

Guide to Psychic Protection – Rosemary Ellen Guiley

Rosemary Ellen Guiley was such a wealth of knowledge and expertise on the paranormal. While she has since passed, she has left us a treasure trove of books and resources. One of my favorites is Guide to Psychic Protection. One of the questions I’m asked most often is, “How do you protect yourself during an investigation?” Rosemary has answered that question. It will not only help you on a ghost hunt but also in your daily life.

Haunted Land: Ghosts, Witches, and Divination in the 18th Century – Michelle Hamilton

It is important to learn where the world of ghost hunting and paranormal research came from. Michelle Hamilton has written several books on the historical context of our belief in ghosts. She knocks Haunted Land out of the park. You get to read actual historical documentation of ghosts, witches, and divination in the 18th century. You might also notice that some of these beliefs are still prevalent today. Civil War Ghosts is another favorite of mine from here.

The Victorian Ghost Hunter’s Casebook – Tim Prasil

If you’re ghost hunting without the fancy tech, are you even ghost hunting? The answer is a resounding YES! Back in the Victorian era, people were absolutely fascinated by ghosts and the supernatural. It’s important to know why Victorians were ghost hunting. This is because it gives us so much context as to why we do what we do today. Tim Prasil also includes a few notes from female ghost hunters from the Victorian era. Did I mention that Charles Dickens and Sir Arthur Conan Doyle are included in this book? They were truly captivated by the supernatural! I’m thrilled this book includes their notes.

Spook: Science Tackles the Afterlife – Mary Roach

This book is truly a classic for any ghost hunter’s library. Mary Roach writes about the subject in a funny and entertaining way to keep you engaged. She includes a lot of articles from CSICOP’s Skeptical Inquirer Magazine. Also, she discusses how folks have been trying to debunk elements of the paranormal using science. Her perspective is objective, and a “must-read” for any paranormal investigator or ghost hunter.

The Good Death and the Civil War: The Haunting of an American Battlefield – John G. Sabol

John G. Sabol is the creator of the Ghost Excavation method, which takes an anthropological and archaeological approach to paranormal investigating. Instead of dressing in jeans, sneakers, and sweatshirts, and asking questions in the dark, Sabol and his team are in period clothing and engaging in scenarios to interact with the spirits. He’s also written dozens of books with his research, and his historical knowledge is invaluable. In the book, Sabol discusses why American Civil War battlefields are haunted, and how the Civil War violated “The Good Death”. I think if you truly want to understand Civil War hauntings, you have to understand what The Good Death was.

Ghost Hunter’s Handbook: Supernatural Explorations for Kids – Liza Gardner Walsh

We can’t forget the kids! There’s some controversy as to whether kids should be in the world of ghost hunting. But they still have paranormal experiences. Often, they don’t have the context or knowledge to understand what they experienced. Liza Gardner Walsh covers the history of ghosts, how to ghost hunt, how to tell a good ghost story, and more. It’s all in a kid-friendly manner that’s engaging and educational.

Where the Footprints End: High Strangeness and the Bigfoot Phenomenon, Volume I: Folklore – Joshua Cutchin and Timothy Renner

I had the pleasure of sitting alongside Joshua Cutchin for ConCarolinas 2019. He is a wealth of knowledge on theories and folklore, and his resources are astounding. If you’re interested in Bigfoot, aliens/UFOs, and the history behind the beliefs we have about them today, this book is for you. Truly, it is really interesting to read about some of the data and theories being ignored by modern-day Bigfoot hunters. It also discusses how the significance of Bigfoot has impacted our society from a cultural standpoint. This is a great resource for any cryptid lover or researcher.

Ghost Hunters: William James and the Search for Scientific Proof of Life After Death – Deborah Blum

The American Society for Psychical Research, and the Society for Psychical Research are big names in the paranormal field. Deborah Blum dives deep into the research of William James. She also includes the experiments he performed on the mediums of the Spiritualism movement. What is truly wonderful about this book is while James did find there were many frauds in the movement, there were also those that defied logic and left him scratching his head.

12 Cool Tech Items for Your Ghost Hunting Kit

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One of the most common questions I get is, “What kind of equipment should I buy? What do I need to start ghost hunting?” Truly, you could just use a notebook and pen to take notes. But if you want to take your ghost hunting to the next level, there are tech items you should consider buying. I do want to say that you don’t have to have every item on this list to be a “real” ghost hunter or paranormal investigator.

Also, I want to preface this by saying that none of these items are proven to detect ghosts or capture evidence of paranormal activity. Look at these pieces of equipment for monitoring changes in the environment. If there is weird stuff happening when the equipment is going off, then that’s something to further research and explore. Also, note that a lot of the “official” ghost hunting tech is made for entertainment purposes only. I also list the price so you can get an idea of how much you might be spending.

Also, just beware of any basic items that are rebranded to be a “ghost hunting” device. Sometimes, these products’ prices are inflated because the term “ghost hunt” is associated with it. You can probably find the exact same device for cheaper without the branding. I have had great experiences working with Ghost Stop when looking for my gear.

Laser Grid – $20

A laser grid not only looks cool, but it can also help detect mass. If there’s a hot spot where shadows have been seen, setting up a laser grid can help you determine whether said shadow has mass or not. Visual disturbances can happen in investigations. If the anomaly has mass, the green dots will be disturbed. Usually, these things do come with little tripods and a clamp so you don’t have to keep pressing the button. Also, set up a camera with it so you can capture that data. Laser grids tend to deplete battery life a bit faster, so have extras on hand to replace as needed. Not only does Ghost Stop carry them, but you can also find them on eBay.

Motion Sensor Lights – $22

Anything with a motion sensor is good to buy, especially lights. If there is any kind of movement happening, the lights will go off. These are effective to set up in a hallway or any other area with reported activity. A pack of six on Amazon is about $22, which isn’t bad. I highly recommend having a camera set up to watch the area, or be there physically to watch so you can try to debunk and/or engage should anything happen.

Infrared Thermometer – $35

This nifty tool is a great thing to use to monitor temperature changes, which people often associate with a paranormal presence. You can use this to take baseline readings, find cold spots, hot spots, and see if your team member really is feeling a chill. If you want to amp up your thermometer experience or combine forces with EMF detection, Ghost Stop has something called the EDI (“Eddy”), which runs about $200. This is definitely on my wish list since it also does data logging as well as sense pressure and humidity.

Audio Recorder – $52

Technically, you could use the microphone feature on your phone as an audio recorder. But, I do recommend turning off your phone whenever possible so you don’t accidentally cause a false positive with your K2 meter. You can also buy cheaper audio recorders. Personally, I don’t go too cheap on my audio recorder because quality matters in this case, especially when you’re reviewing audio evidence. I use this Olympus recorder, and it suits my needs. But if you don’t want to spend $50+, a basic audio recorder will do you just fine when you’re first starting out. I know several in the paranormal community who upgrade their recorders to one of the Zoom devices, and they come with amazing microphones that are crystal clear. As you can see, it’s quite a bit more expensive.

K2 Meter – $60

By the way, don’t buy the orange ones like in the photo…they don’t work. Like, they don’t even function correctly in detecting EMF levels. After Ghost Hunters premiered in 2004, the demand for the K2 meter exploded. This item is used to detect electromagnetic fields, better known as EMF. This is a real thing. Your smartphone, your computer, your TV, your kitchen appliances…all emit EMF waves. There is also such a thing as EMF poisoning that can cause one to have hallucinations similar to paranormal experiences. These devices were originally manufactured for detecting harmful EMF radiation from power lines and household appliances. Over the years, the paranormal community has come to believe that there is a link between ghosts and EMF since the activity is usually correlated with high EMF levels.

Camcorder – $69

Video data of your ghost hunting adventures can be very useful for you in many ways. The first is to relive your ghost hunt and review for audio and visual data, and the other is for multimedia purposes. If you want to create a video of your investigations, then you’ll want to have a few camcorders on hand. The first-person perspective will help the camera see what you’re seeing, like when you have a camcorder in your hand. You might also want to have a few stationary cameras in reported hot spots. Since you’ll probably be in the dark sometimes, you may want to consider a camcorder that comes with night vision or infrared. You can certainly use your phone, but it will be limited on storage space. If you want crystal clear clarity in 4K, then you’ll probably have to spend more in the $150 range.

PSB-7 or PSB-11 Spirit Box – $70-$130

Not an actual spirit box…I just liked the photo.

Ah, the controversial spirit box, also known as the ghost box. This is a tool that ghost hunters will use to try to listen for spirit voices while the device sweeps through radio stations. While this isn’t proven to speak to ghosts, it’s used by both believers and skeptics alike (for experimental purposes). I have a few team members with both of these devices, while I’m old school and use a “Shack Hack” radio. You could say it was one of the first spirit boxes made from an old radio from Radio Shack. Ghost Stop has a bunch of different rigs for spirit boxes that include teddy bears and hybrids of spirit boxes, EMF readers, and recorders.

Mel Meter – $100

The Mel Meter was invented by Gary Galka after the tragic passing of his daughter, Melissa. He named the Mel Meter after Melissa, and it’s one of the most popular pieces of ghost hunting equipment out there. A Mel Meter measures temperature and EMF “bursts” that is said to happen when there is paranormal activity. This piece of equipment has evolved over the years and now there are Mel Meters out there that come with REM-Pod-like features and more advanced temperature detection.

Surveillance Camera System – $170

This is a great tool to use if you’re able to set up shop for several hours. We use these for our residential cases as well as spaces we’ve reserved for all night. It does take some time to set up (you’ll need the help of multiple people, FYI), but it will give you the ability to have eyes on multiple places on the property without using your camcorders. I do suggest having someone watching the monitor, which you can arrange in shifts.

REM Pod – $190

Image: Ghost Stop

Basically, a REM-Pod goes off when someone is close to the antennae. I’ll be the first to admit that I haven’t seen a REM-Pod go off very often, but when it does, there are various things happening as well like EMF spikes and my mediums will sense something is near. According to the description, the antennae radiates its own magnetic field and can be easily influenced by people or objects that conduct electricity. If you want to see the REM-Pod in action, check out this video from my team’s YouTube channel.

DSLR Camera – $300+

This is one piece of equipment that you’ll have to spend more money on if you want quality. DSLR is short for, “digital single-lens reflex camera.” I highly HIGHLY recommend using a DSLR if you’re going to be taking pictures during your ghost hunt. Do you know those grainy photos showing “orbs” when they’re all close-up? There’s tons of pixelation in these photos, which results in a phenomenon called pareidolia, which means that our brains are trying to make patterns from these pixels and that’s why you think you see a face. A DSLR won’t completely solve this issue, but the pixels and quality of your photos will be so much better and you’ll be able to zoom into weird anomalies without the pixelation.

Thermal Imaging Camera – $200-$1200

While this may be the most expensive, I personally think this is the neatest tool for ghost hunting. While this is used by builders, contractors, hunters, etc. in the average world, this has become a favorite in the ghost hunting community because people are catching fascinating anomalies with these thermal imaging cameras. FLIR is the most popular brand, and we have personal experience using their cameras and they are truly fantastic. An average FLIR camera will cost you around the $300 range and higher. FLIR does make attachable cameras for Android and IOS too. As you can see, you can get FLIR cameras on Amazon. Ghost Stop also has a selection as they are an authorized FLIR distributor.

Honorable Mentions

Ovilus – $399+

I will forever be skeptical of the Ovilus. I also am not a fan of the price tag given the usability of the device. It’s a popular device with ghost hunters. The word bank is a bit problematic for me since it is pre-programmed. I will admit that I’ve had interesting results using the Ovilus III in reverse phonetic mode, which I think is important to note. We didn’t have a word bank coming at us, and instead, had sounds come out. Does this leave room for pareidolia and the power of suggestion? You bet. Just proceed with caution.

Motion Sensor Alarm – $30+

I put this in the honorable mentions because this can end up being a problematic device because it’s noisy. I do like the indoor versions since they have a chime instead of a loud alarm. The one that Ghost Stop offers also has different sound choices too. They are worth purchasing, especially if there is reported movement in certain areas and it can let you know of different disturbances in the area.

Final Thoughts

All of these items will be useless to you if you don’t know how they work. When you receive your equipment, read the instruction manual, go to online communities and ask questions, learn as much as you can. Learn how the device works, and learn what makes it go off. This will better equip you in your evidence review and you’ll be able to separate what isn’t paranormal, and what is a true anomaly. When it comes to cameras and camcorders, this is especially true.

What do you have in your ghost hunting bag?

Why You Should Change the Way You Ghost Hunt

I have to confess something; I make mistakes too. Maybe more than the average bear. It’s all part of the “trial and error” life of being a paranormal investigator. You try things that work, and you toss the things that don’t work. But the problem here was I was using a technique that had been VERY successful for the past several years.

When I’m out there doing a ghost hunt/paranormal investigation, I’m constantly trying to do it right. Sometimes, that ideal gets me into hot water. This isn’t with the living. But instead, it’s with the ghosts.

I got called out by a ghost for the first time.

The Background

It was my first paranormal investigation since December (ouch). It was our second time at this particular location, and since we had moderate success during our first visit, I wanted to approach the location the same way as last time. The location is rich in history with documentation to support it all. The location is honestly a dream come true!

I can’t say where the location is due to privacy reasons. This is about the lesson I learned during my latest investigation. Don’t get me wrong, the investigation was overall successful and we got some fascinating data, but I didn’t expect the response I would hear from the man of the house himself…who is a ghost.

The Interpretation

I did a lot of prep, but at the end of the day, the ghost felt like we were asking them to perform parlor tricks. They (the ghosts) thought we were looking to be entertained. While that was far from the truth, I can see why the spirits thought that way. I made the mistake of approaching the location like I approach most places; the ghosts want to talk about their feelings. Well, not all ghosts want to sit in the dark with us and talk through their emotions.

Lessons Learned

I honestly feel bad that we came across like a group of ghost hunters that wanted the spirits to perform. That has never been my intention, nor the intention of my time. We try to approach our investigations with a research perspective and bringing questions to the table from a contextual standpoint.

Because I’m an emotional person by nature, I immediately default to this approach. I try to use an empathetic approach to my investigational skills. Most of the time, the ghosts are eager to talk because they may not have had the opportunity to talk about this side of themselves in the past. It’s been a successful approach…until now.

There are ghosts who are present to get a job done. In this case, when the spirits saw us working, they respected us and wanted to join in. I even taught a VIPKid class the next morning in the location (that was a new one). The door kept unlatching and being pushed open. The area was known to have children, and they wanted to learn as well. That was huge.

Like I mentioned before, the investigation wasn’t a bust. We did manage to get some responses and have some information to follow up on to see if it makes sense.

What I’ll Do Next Time

I learned that I can’t use the same formula every time I go on a ghost hunt. Not only do I have to have a plan ready, but I have to have a Plan B ready when A isn’t working. I also need a Plan C, D, E, F…the letters go on.

I need to go back to my roots and hit hard with historical research…that’s critical. That way, I can prepare to change gears at a moment’s notice without derailing the process. Also, most importantly, I hope the spirits feel valued and respected.

How do you prep for your paranormal investigation? What do you do to get the ghosts to talk? Share your tips in the comments!

Live in a Haunted House? Here’s How to Get Through the Quarantine

This week, the New York Times released an article titled, Quarantining with a Ghost? It’s Scary. The article shared stories of different people who were dealing with hauntings and being quarantined in their home with said ghosts. I found this interesting because this has been a thought in the back of my mind when the lockdowns were being put in place. How is the dynamic between the living and the supernatural when neither are able to leave the house? If you’re in this situation, you’re not alone. Luckily, you don’t have to take this sitting down either and just accept your circumstances. It doesn’t have to be scary, and you are not the victim in this situation.

I’ve compiled a list of tips on how to get through the quarantine when you’re sharing spaces with a ghost. These tips can also help even after the quarantine is over. This is all similar to the advice we give our clients at Association of Paranormal Study. Please note that these tips are not guaranteed to resolve your haunting or make life easier for you with your ghostly roommate. 

Things to Consider

Many times when there is activity in your home, after basic home incidents ruled out, that perhaps there may be a ghost that is trying to communicate with you for some reason.

Find out if other people in your home are also experiencing activity. If it’s just you, be sure to check in with your doctor and look at the side effects of any medication you’re taking just to rule out something medical. If others in your household are having experiences as well, that will give you some validation.

1. Learn the Language of Your House

I learned this tip from one of my team members, Pat Parisi, and it’s brilliant. Learning the language of your house, or any haunted location, means that you know all the creaks, unevenness, cracks, and plumbing. basically all the sounds you hear and sensations you feel in your house. This means just sitting and listening for a bit. This is actually a really useful tip for any paranormal investigation. Once you have an idea of what sort of sounds the house makes, you’ll be able to better debunk stuff. 

2. Take Notes

John Tenney mentioned this great tip in the NYT article. Taking notes and making note of the date and time will help you see if there is a pattern to the activity you’re experiencing. It’s also helpful to take notes while listening to the language of your house. If it sounds like footsteps going up and down the stairs, make a note of the day, time, and what was happening before the incident happened. You’ll be able to rule out whether it could be anomalous, or if it happens when someone walks in the kitchen.

3. Set Boundaries

This is something we always try to help our clients with. Regardless of whether your ghostly guest is good or evil, you want to set some boundaries. This could mean anything like, “This is my house, please do not make noise at 1:00am because I’m trying to sleep.” Try to avoid phrases like, “Could you please…”, or “It would be great if you could…” because that is giving the ghost a choice. You don’t have to be mean or angry about it. Being assertive doesn’t mean being rude.

4. Open the Doors and Windows

When you’re stuck inside all day, especially with family, loved ones, pets, etc. things can get stuffy. In this situation, you have so much energy running around your space, that maybe it isn’t even a ghost. But instead, it could be just the accumulation of energy. I definitely recommend opening some windows, and maybe even a door or two to let all that energy out and let the house breathe. If you want to do other things to clear your space like sage or energy healing, be sure to keep things open so the energy has places to go.

5. Ask for Protection

Whatever religious belief you fall into, it doesn’t hurt to pray, meditate, etc. and ask for protection. For many, this may be something as simple as asking God or their deceased relatives to come protect them. If you want to add an extra layer of protection for yourself and your home, there are exercises on grounding and shielding to help keep darker entities, or all entities, at bay.

6. Avoid Communication on Your Own

It’s sort of an unspoken guideline that you should avoid investigating your own home. Even for me, as a seasoned paranormal investigator, I try to avoid ghost hunting in my own space. This is especially true if you don’t know what you’re doing. Before trying anything, try to get in touch with a paranormal team and ask them for their advice. Depending on where you live, they might even be able to come to you if they are exercising safety when it comes to social distancing, sanitizing, wearing masks, etc. I also know that there are teams doing Zoom meetings with their clients so that they can still help you from a distance.

If the ghost is trying to communicate with you, then you may want to explore the possibility of responding. Again, not without the guidance of a paranormal team. Sometimes, if you do listen to what the ghost has to say, they may end up finding peace and move on.

7. Encourage Them to Cross Over

You should have the guidance of a paranormal team or a reputable medium if you want to go this route. A spirit that is residing in your house may not realize that they’re deceased, or they are hesitant to cross over because of things that happened in life. There are a lot of resources online to help a ghost cross over. If this is unfamiliar territory for you, then don’t move forward without talking to someone experienced. There’s a chance you could make the haunting worse instead of better if this isn’t done right.

8. Don’t Antagonize It

During this time of being stuck inside, the last thing you want to do is try to be a big, bad ghost hunter that you see on TV. Don’t do things to make it mad, and definitely don’t provoke. Antagonizing the ghost will not make it want to leave anytime soon. Plus, it will make life quite a bit more hectic and turbulent. 

9. Fill Your Space with Positive Energy

This can be hard with the current situation. One of the things I really don’t like is false and toxic positivity. Self-care is more important than ever before! I try to do something positive for myself at least once per day. That might be a dance party, exercising, eating my favorite food, watching Disney, watching something that will make me laugh, the list goes on. You don’t have to be constantly happy, but doing something to bring in a little more positivity can make a big difference. Taking care of yourself is the first step to taking care of your space.

10. Ignore It

This is advice I often see when it comes to dealing with a haunting. I don’t think this is the perfect way, but this is an option. Many will ignore their haunting long enough in hopes that the ghost will get bored and go away on its own. On the other hand, as mentioned before, if the ghost wants to communicate and has something to say, then it will continue to make a ruckus until you sit down and listen to it. 

11. Learn to Live with It

If you have a ghost that is fairly calm with the occasional activity, then you have the choice to just learn to live with it. For example, I have a ghost in my kitchen, who I named Frank. He doesn’t really do much except the occasional floating objects and pushing bread off the bar. He does make the occasional appearance down the hall that leads to the kitchen. Besides that, I barely notice him. I can live with an entity like that. If the activity is much more disruptive and volatile, then there would be no way I could continue living with the entity, and it would have to go.

Final Thoughts

Think of the ghost as a roommate. You are sharing the same space and it’s inevitable that you may bump into each other occasionally. The idea of ghosts can be scary, but what has helped me in dealing with that fear is the fact that ghosts are people just like you and me. They just exist in a different state. Think of how you treat the people that live with you and give the ghost that same courtesy. 

Do you have any tips on getting through the quarantine while living in a haunted space? Share them in the comments!

Amazing MUST KNOW Ghost Hunting Tips for Newbies

Congratulations! You have decided to step into a unique world of mystery, suspense, and even a little spook. Probably one of the most popular questions I get as a seasoned paranormal investigator is, “I’m going on my first ghost hunt, what do I do?” I love helping people prepare for their first ghost hunt. It’s almost like a right of passage! If you google what to do for your first ghost hunt, you’ll find a lot of good stuff. I’m not trying to trump on anyone’s good advice. But, I do have my own little “to do” list that will help you have the best time you can have!

Respect

First and foremost, respect the location you’re investigating. Respect the deceased that you’re trying to communicate with. Follow the rules of the venue and the group that you’re in. The quickest way to get kicked out of a ghost hunt, let alone some angry spirit coming after you, is to be disrespectful.

Self-Assess

Before you commit to any sort of ghost hunt, you need to decide what you want out of the experience. Do you want to get scared? Do you want to learn some history? Do you want to try to find proof of the afterlife? Are you trying to contact someone in particular? Just answering simple questions like this can help you gain a better understanding of what you want out of the experience. If you’re someone who gets scared easily, read reviews of the location before you go. Read some of the legends and experiences people have had. Is this something you can handle? If not, perhaps looking into a more benevolent location might be better. If you feel you’re ready, then you know what your limits are and when to give yourself a break.

Know Where You’re Going

Being familiar with your location is key before going on a ghost hunt. If the company you’re working with wants to keep it a surprise until the night of, all hope is not lost. Ask them what kind of environment you’ll be ghost hunting in. Is it a house? Will you have to hike? Will you be outside? If there’s any part of the ghost hunt that will take place outside, then be sure you’re ready for whatever weather is on the forecast that night.  Not only that, but find out the conditions of the roads. There have been times I’ve almost damaged my car from driving on rugged terrain in my little sedan when my ride buddy had a jeep left at home.

If the location is going to be in the dark night in the woods, then flashlights are a must. Closed-toe shoes are also a must. Speaking of the woods, going through any bushes and trees will warrant wearing some jeans just so you avoid any poisonous plants. I also advise people to not wear all black if they can avoid it. I’ve heard of many ghost hunters getting hit by cars at night because the driver couldn’t see them since they were wearing all black.

Tech

This is another area where I get a lot of questions. I always tell people that you don’t have to spend thousands of dollars on equipment. Part of the ghost hunting experience is collecting evidence, or as I prefer to call it, data. It means you could be recording audio on a recorder, or taking a video of your experience. The one thing that people forget is that if you take in 4 hours of data on your audio recorder and 4 hours of data on your camcorder, you have 8 hours worth of data to go through. If data collection is what you want to do, that’s fantastic. But if the thought of this is daunting, there is nothing wrong with wanting to do tech-free just so you can have that experience.  Some of the earliest ghost hunters only had a pen and paper to jot down notes.

Pack Smart

If you’re going on a ghost hunt that will last longer than 4 hours, you might need to pack some food provisions to get through the night. Everyone will usually default to packing sugary snacks and caffeinated drinks. However, that will cause your blood sugar to spike, and then you’ll experience a crash…which will be counterproductive if you want to stay up for several hours. Protein-filled snacks, veggies, and water will be necessary to get through the evening.

Food aside, packing flashlights, batteries, and a first aid kit should be in any ghost hunter’s survival kit. Even if the location is indoors, you never know when you might get a scratch or miss your footing and get injured.

Sleep

Getting enough sleep is essential to enjoying the ghost hunting experience. Sure, eventually you’re going to get tired. But if you push yourself beyond being sleepy, you will start to see and hear things that aren’t really there. Sleep deprivation can cause some interesting hallucinations and can be similar to the feeling of being drunk. It could compromise your ability to understand your surroundings. Something simple and logical could get interpreted as something paranormal. If you feel tired, there is no shame in taking a cat nap. I try to get at least eight hours of sleep the night before an investigation along with a nap during the day.

Research

This can go in two different directions. Some people want to research the location as much as possible before an investigation. They do this so that they know exactly what is going on at a haunted location. They will know the names of who is reportedly haunting and be able to use contextual questions to establish communication. Meanwhile, other people don’t want to know anything before going in. This is so that they don’t “taint” themselves with previous information. Many with psychic abilities may opt to do this.

Abilities

If you feel like you have psychic or mediumship abilities, then you’ll need to prepare for another aspect. Numerous times, I’ve noticed people get overwhelmed during an investigation. When I talk to them to try to help them, they reveal to me that they have abilities and they got overwhelmed by the experience. To avoid this, if you’re completely new to the world of having abilities, I recommend that you learn how to ground and shield. There are some great articles to help you learn this.  Having the best understanding of your abilities before your ghost hunt will be key to you having a good ghost hunting experience.

Ask the Right Questions

With each ghost hunt, you’ll probably hear a few suggestions for questions to ask. But, there is a trick to asking the right questions that will create a welcoming environment for communication. You want to keep the questions simple, but also smart. One of my pet peeve questions is, “Do you know you’re dead?” Something as simple as asking for a name is better. Knowing the history of the location in terms of important dates in its existence (ie: wars, presidential inaugurations, world events, etc.).

Stacking questions can create problems as well. That is when you ask several questions in the same stream of speaking. An example of a stacking question would be, “What’s your name? Where are you from? How old are you?” If asked by themselves, these questions are fine. But asking them in the same line of questioning, it will result in confusion. Finally, be sure to leave 10-15 seconds of silence after each question to give the entity time to produce an answer.

Be Safe

At the end of the day, you want to be safe. That is the number one priority in any ghost hunting experience. You don’t want to try anything that could compromise your health and safety.  You have most likely signed a liability release form, which means that if you get injured, then you’ll have to cover those expenses yourself. While it may be tempting to climb into the attic or ignore the “Keep Out” signs in order to explore another part of the haunted house, a lot of things could happen. The floor might give out, you might inhale bat guano, or you encounter an unexpected injury. Ultimately, you want to put safety first.

If you have any other tips for a successful ghost hunt for a newbie, please share them in the comments!